Often I hear women say my biological clock is ticking. I knew that meant they wanted children but I never understood the feeling until now. Now that I'm 30 years old, my life isn't where I thought it would be at 30. I had a planned image in my mind that by 26 my husband would find me, by 28 we'd be married and by 29 have my first child. So far I haven't accomplished any of these. People keep saying to me, don't worry about it, your still young and its never too late. But I don't want to be old with my kids. I love the fact that my crazy mother is young with me. She's 49 right now. I never thought I'd get the feeling of wanting kids but I do. A lot of friends and family say that can't see me being a mother. I'm not sure why that's said but I do want childern someday and hopefully not too late. I've read that as women reach their thirties, they experience a decline in fertility. Furthermore, complications during pregnancy are more common when women reach age 35. I have a few friends that have expierenced these problems in their thirties. It's a very difficult situation to deal with. So that's why I get a little upset when people say its never too late. When is late too late? I know not having a man/husband in my life really slows down the process of achieving this goal lol. Geez WHERE is he? What the heck is taking him so long? When he does arrive in my life, he's going to get slapped something serious for making me wait so long LMBO!!
LMBO. I heard that, "If you want to make God laugh, tell Him your plans". I wonder what His plans are for you (I'm sure they're great). I think our generation as well as that of our parent's started the trend of young parenting. Prior to that it seems as though the majority of women were having children in their 30-40s; as compared to us in our teens and 20s.
ReplyDeleteOn another note, but still on the topic of age and pregnancy. Did you hear about the 70-yr old lady who became pregnant in India? So I think once you start getting to be around that age...that's when we'll start worrying (LOL).
Oh, and be sure to slap your future "man/husband" after you get married; he needs to be conscious and 'fully' committed before he feels that heavy-hand (LOL).
YOU KNOW THE SAYING God may not come when we want him but he will be there right on time because he is a on time God YEs he is.LOL You will have kids and a husband because that is the desier of your heart and God wants to give us the desiers of our heart but we have to waite on the Lord cause anit no telling what your husbad is up to right now only God knows why his big head is taking forever to find you LOL. Dont worry about your age cause God and give you every thing you will need to keep up with your kids believe me when I say this cause T4 is a road runner for real LOL In closing Go before God get on your face and dont get up until you hear from God He wants to talk to you but you have to humbale your self in order to hear him. PS let me know what he said about this matter.
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