Do you believe in Astrology? (Part 1)

I have to admit, Astology does have a few things that seem to be correct about people including myself. I'm an Aries. Here are a few facts about Aries that I found:

STRENGTHS:

Independent, Generous, Optimistic, Enthusiastic, Courageous

WEAKNESSES:

Moody, Short tempered, Self Involved, Impulsive, Impatient

So far these do seem to match my personality exactly. Lets talk about the weaknesses first.
 
I am Moody and become moody out of no where. I hate that about myself but don't seem to have control over it. I could be having a wonderful day and all of a sudden I got a major attitude problem lol. When I get like that I usually dont like anyone to say ANYTHING to me. Just shut up and leave me along. The worst question you can ask me when I'm being moody is "What's wrong?" OMG I go crazy when people ask me that. I don't know why it drives me up the wall but it does.
As for short tempered I would have to disagree.

Adjectiveshort-tempered (comparative more short-tempered, superlative most short-tempered)

1.Of or pertaining to a person who is easily angered, who is known to frequently lose his or her temper.

  I'm not easily angured. I can be sometimes when it comes Stupidity, but other than that I'm not short tempered. I'm a very blunt person and can handle a lot before I blow my top. When I get upset I cry, and since I don't like folks to see me cry when I'm mad I try to refrain from getting so upset. For example, if I get in a fight, I'll be crying and kicking your butt at the same time LOL!
 
The Self Involved part sort of bothers me.

self-in·volved (slfn-vlvd)

adj.
Absorbed primarily or only in one's own interests or activities

Not true for me either but I will say if I have a lot going on I tend to put myself first to get what I need to get done. I don't see anything wrong with that lol.

Impulsive....hmmmm......

im·pul·sive (m-plsv)

adj.

1. Inclined to act on impulse rather than thought.

2. Motivated by or resulting from impulse: such impulsive acts as hugging strangers; impulsive generosity. See Synonyms at spontaneous.

I guess lol.

Impatient..... No need for a definition, I am very impatient. I'm ALWAYS ontime IF I want to be lol. I can't stand waiting on people. But I don't let it bother me to the point where I say something to somone for being LATE lol. So I try not to let it bother me but it does. Samething when it comes to work. If I'm working on a project that involves others I'm impatient if I finish my part first and I'm still waiting on them. I'd end up doing the whole thing myself. They say woman take longer than men when getting ready, well I'm not one of those ladies. However I know that patience is a virtue and this is something I've asked God to work with me on and I've gotten a lot better.

As for all of the STRENGTHS, I'm all of that and more LOL! The one that stands out the most to me is Independent. I've very independent and have always been. But some can see this as a bad thing. Like Men... my expeirence as shown me that some men don't like independent woman. I guess its because they feel like we don't need them or make them feel like they are not needed. But that's not true. I need a man and show my man that he's needed, but I'll also say if he decides to up and leave I do just fine without him.

More talk on Astrology and Me as an Aries coming soon!

To Be Continued.....

The Date

Last Saturday night I had my 3rd date with a new friend who I like to call Mr Quiet lol. He is a very quiet guy. This is actually a first for me. I've never been interested in a guy that's quiet like him but its intersting. He treated me to dinner and a movie for my birthday. We went to my favorite restuarant call The Old Spaghetti Factory, and after dinner we saw a movie "Act Like A Woman, Think Like A Man" which by the way is SOOOO good. I did get Mr Quiet to talk a lil more than he did the last time we went out lol. He still hasn't asked much about me but I suspect that will come a lil later. Even though we've been out 2 times before this date, it still felt like our first date. I still had butterflies in my stomach before seeing him. I still was nervous during dinner lol. It reminds me of the movie 50 First Dates lol, Which I think is so cute and funny. I still have a lot of unanswered questions but I realize that's just going to take some time to get them answered.

While watching the movie, which is about dating, a few of questions popped up in my mind such as: At what point do you know your dating someone? When you date is it ok to date multiple people? What the heck is dating? LOL

Tic Toc Tic Toc

Tic Toc Tic Toc, the clock is ticking and in just 4 more days I'll be 32 years old on April 17th. I didn't get to make big plans for my birthday this year, due to a friend of mine getting married and me planning her bachelorette party in Las Vegas. So next Friday I've scheduled a dinner with all my close home girls at a restaurant called Simply Fondu. And I have a birthday DATE that following Saturday with a new guy friend that I'm very excited about.

I'm trying to stop beating myself up about my life not being where I want it to be by the time I turned 30. I realize that trying to plan your life out really is IMPOSSIBLE lol. Yet I still make attempts and find my self very disappointed with the end results. I know there is a reason why my life is the way it is but I don't why. I wish I could call up God on the phone and ask him a few questions. Don't get me wrong I'm not completely unhappy with my life just certain things.

I've decided to make my 32nd year of life a good one NO MATTER WHAT.... Ha Ha...yeah right, that'll be happening lol. Ok, ok..... I'm going to try very hard to make my 32nd year a good one. My first attempt is to get out of the house. I haven't been out in a while. Money is always tight so it causes me to stay home but I know I can try harder to get out of the house...even if its just to go and visit a friend for FREE lol! I don't have any other ideas for my 32nd year other than continue to smile and thank God for every morning I wake up. 

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