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Thursday, September 2, 2010

"Shallow Hal Wants A Gal"




Two weeks ago, one of my home girls stayed the night with me. We got into a good conversation about California men being attracted to video vixens. If you don't know what a video vixen is, turn on a rap video with any of the latest rappers, 50 Cent, Ludacris or even Lil Wayne's alien looking self lol. See that perfect shaped girl with longs legs, long hair and probably mixed dancing in the video? YES sir, that's a VIDEO VIXEN. Our poor men of America have been brain washed into thinking this is the type of chick EVERY or MOST women should look like. They are brain washed to think their not a MAN unless they've got a video vixen on their arm. My friend and I got on you tube and looked at one of ludacris videos. I don't remember the name of the song, but in the video he was in the bar and apparently got a little drunk which lead him to having on Beer Goggles. For those of you that don't know what beer goggles are, its when your so drunk, that the ugliest person looks like the cutest person. And its not until your sober the next day and realize you have a hiena laying next to you lol. So Luda is now walking around the bar with these beer goggles on and spots a girl he thinks looks hella fine. Turns out she's an over weight woman. And he gets all mad that he was too drunk to notice she wasn't a vixen. Watching that video really upset me, because I sometimes feel like men look at me that way. Everyone tells me I'm beautiful and a wonderful person but men just DON'T talk to me. Hardly EVER! If they do talk to me, its a bum or some ghetto thug with a mouth full of gold teeth, or some35 year old man who still leaves at home with his mama lol. So the only thing I can come up with is, it's my weight. I'm so tired of these videos and movies that look down on over weight woman. Here are some example movies that put down a big women:

  • She's All That: A bet is made to turn a geek into a prom queen. But before the geek is picked they look at a fat girl and all laugh and make jokes as if she could never be prom queen.


  • How to Lose A Guy In 10 Days: A bet is made to get a Woman to fall in love with Matthew in two weeks. As they start searching for the girl to do the bet, they first spot an over weight woman and Mathew says "come on guys be nice."


  • Hot Chicks: A decent looking black guy spots an over weight woman in the club and decides he wants to talk to her, but his friends look at him like he's crazy and make fun of him because she's over weight.

These are just a few I can go on and on for days. But you get my point right.? Do these film makers understand how they are crushing the hearts of over weight women who look at these movies? Guess not! I've even had a guy try and talk to me, after he went through all my skinny friends who turned him down. Thank goodness I was drunk because I told him off. I said "All you retarded guys see when you look at women is beautiful wrapping paper wrapped around a present. You never see what's on the inside. You look at a woman and her wrapping paper is all shiny with a huge bow on top but you open it up and its a piece of shit inside. Then you look at women like me who you considered wrapped in newspaper and duck tape, but you open me up and its a diamond inside. But you'll never own a diamond because your too superficial. So go back over there and enjoy your pieces of shit!" LOL....he couldn't say anything by the time I was done with him. So back to my post, my sister came down this week and we watched the movie: Shallow Hal! I really loved the fact that Hal was hypnotized into seeing the inner beauty of a woman rather than her outer appearance. Even though it took hypnotizing him he learned how shallow he was in wanting to have the perfect looking woman. I wish I could hypnotize all these retarded men in California. Then video vixens would be out of a job lol and the big sistas could take over. Even though I'm a big girl, I have a lot to offer a man. My husband will be satisfied. I'm kind, loving, intelligent, funny, sweet, sexy, romantic and every other good word out there lol. But these jerks just fail to see that. They fail to see that I'm easy 2 love.

2 comments:

  1. Ooh, this was a very good post, like all others:) Girl, but this is a serious subject and issue. Actually, you made me think of that movie "Good Luck Chuck"; which I must say wasn't that great anyway. The movie made such a mockery of overweight women, and it even made me wonder why overweight women even play those roles; especially to be so blatantly, disrespected. We can talk about this issue for days!

    Somehow, our society has become so very comfortable with discriminating against overweight people, in an alarming way. Which I also find very weird because back in the Victorian Age, being overweight was a sign of success, and now it has gone to the extreme opposite. Not only that, so many people misjudge others who are overweight. They assume the person is lazy and whatever other stereotype. When in actuality it is often the opposite.

    In all honesty, I think the majority of this country, has lost all moral value and character. What else does a video vixen have to offer besides emptying a wallet, creating a false mirage and false sense of self? Hopefully, men wake up before it's too late.

    Keep sparkling like the diamond you are!

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  2. Hey Neka, wow I forgot about the Good Luck Chuck movie. I remember I din't even laugh during that part. I said the same thing to myself, why would a woman play a role like this and embarass herself on national tv? Like Norbit played by Eddy Murphy, well you know that all those scenes where the skin looks real, that's played by a real overweight woman. I watched the making and she said it doesn't bother her that people stare or make jokes, and that she has confidence in herself. But she also mentioned that she getting paid too. I'm sure there are plenty of over weight woman who feel comfortable in their skin. And that's all fine and dandy. It's the men that make it difficult to be excepted. Do you remember that billboard that said: When he comes, he'll take the skinny ones first? I remember it was all over the news. The owner who posted it thought it would convience women to lose weight. Instead it hurt a lot of people.Crazy huh

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